“You were so giant in this life my love. As though you were the galaxy and everyone else the stars. You were so full of life in this life that in death you are the same giant. And the hole you have left is giant too. You were so giant in this life that my grief for you must be giant also that's the science you see. And really there is little to be done about that. For love breeds grief grief breeds love. And a giant hole does not easily fill.”